I just got this message:

"Just got another sad news. Ananth is also gone! Sonya informed about his passing on facebook. He went on 20th Nov in his sleep."

My tribute is a Navajo requiem:

Homeward now shall I journey,
Homeward upon the rainbow.
Homeward now shall I journey,
Lo, yonder, the holy place..

Mimi
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It's over. Ananath fought a long hard battle and over the years gave many of us inspiration to continue with our lives in spite of our various forms of head and neck cancer.

He was an institution of knowledge on this head and neck cancer business and will be missed.

Hopefully, CNN will complete the documentary and air it soon to commemorate his passing.
I haven't been on this site for over a year but when i was going through my treatment i came on a lot,there was always one person who seemed to seemed to have a kind word for everyone.
I am truly saddened by the loss of someone i've never met.

R.I.P Ananth
I am so sad to hear the news of Ananth's passing. I will miss him greatly. I have followed his posts for quite a while and admired his courage, his intelligence and his caring. Though we never met I feel I have lost a friend. My sympathy to his family.

Sheila
I thought this would be a good place to copy well written Sharifah's Good Bye, Ananth to Ananth on her blog. I wrote a couple of comments on her posting which I would like to share.

Your good bye message to Ananth contains similar thoughts from many of us who exchanged thoughts and ideas via the internet with a person who selfeshly took the time to befriend, educate and inspire others like myself to realize we should live our lives to the fullest and make the best of whatever time we have left. Thanks Sharifah for this write-up.

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Tuesday, December 01, 2009
Good Bye, Ananth
Hello to all,

Another head and neck cancer warrior, Ananth Shenoy went to meet his maker on November 20th in his sleep after battling a fierce battle for almost 10 years. He was one of my cyber friends whom I befriended after I myself was hit by this unforgiving cancer. His passing saddens me to the core. He was constantly motivating, inspiring and had never lost for words when it comes to uplifting the spirits of fellow cancer survivors. I am one of those lucky people who had the opportunity to get to know him and whose lives he touched. When I underwent my second surgery in August last year, he wrote to the Mouth Cancer Foundation Forum informing everybody and asking everybody to pray for my recovery and when I did recover, he wrote to me and said that it was the best news he had ever got. How could you not like such a person even though you've never met? How could you not feel anything when such a person is gone? The world seems quiet without him.

We chatted through yahoo messenger several times. I talked to him about the shortcomings I face socially for being tongueless, about how people just look at you in a certain way once you start saying something and sometimes they just look the other way just because they have a hard time understanding you. Its as though trying to understand you is so hard and laborious and is such a waste of their precious time. We talked about having to resort to the PEG tube for food and how embarrassing it could be having to do it in public. And he never failed to make me feel good about myself again. He said that if others refuse to pause and try to understand what I have to say, then, its their loss because I have a lot of great ideas to share and I can understand perfectly what they have to share. In other words, I can enrich myself from them, but they can't.

He would use him own experience in the cancer journey to point out how fortunate I am compared to him, He said that he's willing to trade places with me anytime..

The last time I chatted with him he complained that he was in a lot of pain and was taking doses of morphine to numb the pain, And now, he's gone...and all that pain is over...

Rest in peace, Ananth. You are terribly missed!

Sharifah

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Sharifah's blog url.

http://hiduplama.blogspot.com/

when visiting RDOC i frequently bring up Sharifah's blog and let the upbeat music play while I am reading the RDOC comments. it helps one not to be so down when reading messages of ordeals some of our fellow posters are going through.......
i am so saddened by ananth's passing,i really thought things were looking up for him.i will miss my friend very much,he was my facebook friend and we also traded emails etc.my love and thoughts go to his beloved sonya and his boys that he was so proud of and his furry friend budo,god bless love shirl xxx
Hello Everyone,
This is Sonya here.
Its soon going to be a year without Ananth and even today all of us miss him so much.
I am thankful to all of you for being there for him thru out his journey.
Love you all.
You can keep in touch with me on sonyashenoy@gmail.com
Love
Sonya
Hi Sonya

It's hard to believe that Ananth has been gone nearly a year. I frequently have "what would Ananth say?" moments when I'm writing to new members here on the site. Thank you for sharing him with us.

I hope you and your sons are doing well.

Julia

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