My name is Mark and I have just found this site and forum.
A little about my situation
I am 44 years old and in 2014 I was diagnosed with cancer of the tongue.
It was discovered after months of persistent earache,it was discovered deep in the tongue base and was pushing against a nerve that was causing the earache.
I had 6 weeks of chemotherapy and radiotherapy ending in mid December of that year.
Was told in March 2015 after biopsy that no signs of cancer and all looked well.
By September of the same year I became symptomatic again and by January 2016 it was discovered that the cancer had returned.
I was given 2 choices,palliative care or surgery.
I have a young family so I opted for the surgery.
April 2016 (4 days after my 42nd birthday) I had an operation to completely remove my tongue and voice box,relocate my windpipe to my neck and remove muscle and fat to reconstruct the floor of my mouth.
Nearly 3 years on from the op and I am still here.
It had been an extremely difficult journey,there have been some incredibly dark days however all of that is trumped by the fact I get to spend time with my wife and watch my family grow up.
I am on this site for 2 reasons
To share my experiences and hopefully be able to help others
And to get help and support myself.
Many thanks for taking the time to read this.