My father was just diagnosed with mouth cancer so I have spent the past few days reading over posts on this site. I'm wondering how your husband (and you) have been handling the surgery. Is he able to function on his own, or does he need someone with him at all times? I own a company called brick repair fort worth that keeps me pretty busy, so I won't be able to help him much during the day if he ends up going through with this surgery. Any advice would be appreciated!