Got your 2 photos via email - will update shortly.
To private message, there are 3 main ways.
1. See my name on the left of my message (next to the avatar - coffee cup icon)? Click on that and a pop up menu appears. Select "Invite Krishan to a Private Topic" if you want to private message me. Same for other members.
2. On the top menu, see "NEW". Click that and select from the drop down menu, "Private Message". You'll then be able to choose who you want in your private topic (you can now have more than 1 person in your private discussion).
3. On the top menu, see "GO". Click on "Go > My Space > Private Messaging" on the drop down menu and side menu that appears. This is the main "private messaging" control panel and you can see all your open private discussions here. So if you wish to add a reply to an existing private topic, go to this page.
Hope this helps! Krishan
p.s. you need to be logged in to do all that.