Yes, I've experienced some of those selfish remarks - I guess we all have. The one I remember most was from my partner who "couldn't cope" with the changes in our lifestyle since I got mouth cancer - like we couldn't eat out in restaurants so it affected where we could holiday and "I didn't plan to be a carer"!!Well pardon me for spoiling your fun!(Now an ex-partner by the way!!!)
"Life may not be the party we expected, but while we're here we may as well dance"